I've been doing some research into Sensory Processing Disorder recently and the Highly Sensitive Person.
If you have strong reactions to people, smells, sounds and environment
and get easily overwhelmed, you could be a
HSP.
Issues of the HSP:
Need for solitude. Do you have the need to be alone for
extended periods of time every day? HSPs sometimes need a lot of solitude or
down time to decompress from the over-stimulation of their environment. This is
important to know about yourself. You can use this trait to your advantage by
purposely taking the time you need to settle down. This will help you be
mentally and physically healthier.
Easily hurt feelings. Have you been accused of being too
“touchy?” Easily hurt feelings often
come from our need to consider any feedback carefully and our sensitive
feelings may cause us to react more emotionally. It is natural for HSPs to
pause to observe and reflect before acting. Why not use this natural instinct
to your advantage?
Long lasting setbacks. Do you think that your setbacks and
hurt feelings last longer than normal? HSPs may react more emotionally to these
situations, but don’t necessarily have longer lasting setbacks. Your reaction
depends on how you view them. You may be emotionally overreacting by your
sensitivity mixed with your own personal history.
Shyness. Shyness is not an inherited HSP trait. Sensitivity
is. Your experiences in childhood might have caused you to have shy tendencies.
Unfortunately, shyness has a negative connotation. According to Dr. Aron,
social anxiety or shyness is almost always due to overarousal, which makes you
act, speak, or appear to be socially awkward. Overarousal is not necessarily
fear but can be caused by outside stimuli such as loud noises, etc. Shyness
tendencies might not have anything to do with being around people. Acknowledge
that you might be nervous in certain situations and make allowances for it by
leaving it or making the best out of it. This doesn’t mean that you can’t
function in social situations.
Conscientiousness. Do you always make an extraordinary
effort to do the best you can in every task that you undertake? Does this
hinder you from getting things done? Conscientiousness is a HSP characteristic
strength when it’s not taken to the extreme.
Sensitivity to environment. Do you feel uncomfortable in
environments such as hospitals where there is an overabundance of activity? Are
you easily overwhelmed in environments that produce bright lights, strong odors
and scents? Do you startle easy by loud or sudden sounds? Are you affected by
touching abrasive surfaces or material? Does clutter make you abnormally
nervous? HSPs are often overly stimulated by these situations. Your awareness
of this fact will cause less stress in your life by making adjustments for it.
Intuitive sense about people and their moods and problems.
It can also be an advantage because those that are sensitive to the needs of
others are often sought after as friends.
Sensitivity to pain. Do you have an unusually low tolerance
for pain? Has anyone told you that you’re too pain sensitive? HSPs can be very
sensitive to pain.
Sensitivity to temperature. Are you unusually affected by
temperature extremes?
Sensitivity to medications. Do you have a high sensitivity
to medications?
Caffeine sensitivity. Does anything that contains caffeine
make you jumpy or nervous? HSPs can be particularly sensitive to the effects of
caffeine.
Aversion to violence. Do you purposely avoid anything that
depicts violence? HSPs go out of their way to avoid violent movies, television
shows, etc.
A dislike of crowds or public places. HSPs can become
agitated when surrounded by a lot of people and/or activity. If this is an
issue for you, make allowances for these situations by having an exit strategy
when you are overstimulated.
Confrontation issues. Do you avoid confrontation? Do you
consciously avoid overwhelming or troublesome situations. This is not
necessarily a HSP trait. You may be overreacting to situations due to your
sensitivity and personal history.
You may want to consider picking your
“battles” more carefully. Sometimes it might be better to let something go
rather than becoming too overwhelmed with things that don’t really matter.
Irritated when pressured. Are you thrown off balance when
other people want you to do too many things at once? HSPs can sometimes be
overwhelmed when they have many things to do in a short period of time. The
ability to remain calm has a lot to do with your childhood experiences, rather
than your HSP trait. Take a step back and regroup when you become overwhelmed.
Being watched makes you nervous. Do you get easily flustered
when being watched by others? Is public speaking a challenge for you? HSPs may
become unusually nervous when they are observed by others or while being
watched when carrying out a task. These challenges can be managed by being
prepared, which in turn, provides the confidence to excel in these situations.
Heightened or intense reactions when hungry. Do you have
feelings of irritability, nervousness, or lack of concentration when you haven’t
eaten for an extended period of time? Hunger may create a strong reaction that
disrupts a HSPs concentration or mood. This is a HSP strength because you can
replenish your body before it becomes too depleted.
Feeling distressed when making changes. Do you feel this
way? This is a challenge for HSPs and non-HSPs alike. A HSPs deep thinking
capabilities can make this process easier by being aware and pondering
different possibilities and acting on them. This will cause less stress and
anxiety.
Intuitiveness toward self. The potential issue here is if
you have this gift and are not using it to your advantage. Do you have the
capacity for self- reflection and intuitive learning? Do you have the ability
to know something, even if you’re not sure how you learned it? Are you drawn to
holistic activities and alternative ways of doing things? HSPs are deep
thinkers who have rich, complex inner lives.
Turning “red” or blushing. Do you often blush or feel
flushed when you’re overstimulated or eat hot food? I often experience this
sensation suddenly and without notice. It is not a proven HSP trait, but I know
this is true for me. Be aware that overarousal may cause this reaction in you.
Accept it and don’t let it become a hindrance in your life.
Depression. Have you had “bouts” of depression in your life?
If so, overstimulating situations over an extended period of time could be a
contributing factor. HSPs aren’t prone to depression more than anyone else. Use
a HSP trait of needing and taking the time to de-compress to help ward off
depression.
Familiarity. Are you more comfortable with repetition and
routine? This is definitely true for me. HSPs may function better in scripted
settings, both vocationally and socially. If this is true for you, recognize
this and make a conscious effort to be in situations where you will thrive.
Acutely aware of consequences. Do you think of the
consequences of your actions? This is a HSP strength because of our deep
thinking capabilities. You will make better decisions and stay out of trouble!